Can We Still Be Friends

Life is really not like the movies. If people’s life was like the movies then every person’s love life would be pretty healthy. There would be no unhappy endings. Let’s face, life is not like the movies. If there’s anything in life that resembles movies it’s the nightmarish things that happen in the middle of movies. I say this because of some endings in movies where relationships end and one party asks if they could still be friends. In the movie world it can still work out, in the real world it just might be a dream.

When your ex asks if you too can still be friends after the relationship, it would make you think a lot. Do you think that this is really possible? It might make you sit back a moment and think very well. But why in the world or how your friendship can last when everything you had in your relationship just broke down. So when an ex ask that question it might only be polite to say “sure why not.” But deep inside both of you know that it might be hard to be good friends again. That expression is just used as a consolation prize for the dumping you had.

People who ask and say yes to these things do not really mean what they are saying. How can both of you be good friends when you have some bitterness? Maybe if the relationship has ended without the bitterness and with common consent. Even though, this will still be hard especially for the first couple of months, because being with the person will make you remind of some stuff that could have and have not been. It would be hard to make these new-ex friendship work really.

This may also happen to persons who have just had a crash and burn during their first couple of dates. When one party thinks you are getting lame, he or she may only say, its best we stay as friends. Yeah right!

How can both of you be friends if you are not able to go out, talk or have fun most of the time. A friend is a person you develop your trust through time. What happens during that time is that you only became acquaintances and not friends.

So it’s pretty stupid too make the other party be on the expecting end. It might happen on some rare occasions. But it would need a whole lot of work, where you would need to remove the emotional baggage. It might also work if you get some Hollywood magic.

Signs a Guy is with you for your Body

Your mother and father have probably been warning you about the “bad guy” as far back as you can remember. Well, chances are likely that you’ll encounter more than a few while in high school. Every school has at least a few male pigs whose only goal in life is to hook up and get laid. These guys will come at you in completely different ways. Some will be obvious players, while others will masquerade under a sweet and innocent pretense. This is how you can identify them.

1) When the two of you are alone…he spends more time touching than talking.

2) He doesn’t respect your sexual limits and dating rules. He always keeps trying after you say stop…and he never cares too much if you get upset.

3) He brags to his friends about what the two of you have done (or haven’t done).

4) He becomes an octopus the second the two of you touch lips. If all he’s trying to do is cop feels, get into your pants, or go up your shirt, you’re dealing with a guy who’s more interested in your body than your mind.

5) He never wants to go on dates with you. He prefers to come over to your house and “hang out”.

6) He avoids places or situations where other girls might see him with you.

7) He’s never taken the time to really get to know you.

8) He has a reputation for being a player. If you’re considering getting involved with a guy who has a habit of using girls, you need to stop and think why he would treat you any different. Because you’re not like all the other girls? Please…that’s just what all the other girls thought, too.

9) He takes off right after sex. Does he make a habit of running out the door the second he gets laid? Does he never want to sit around and talk? If so…he’s only after your body.